I wasn't worried about the 2.54mm, but the spacing between the first and second row pads. I'm still not 100% sure but it looks close.
For anyone interested the main page for the connector is here:
https://www.samtec.com/products/smh with the exact footprints.
The part numbers will be SMH-120-02-x-D with x being the plating. L=Flash Gold, G=Gold, T=Tin. The D is important since it designates a dual row. the 02 does not mean that, so if you find something-S then it will be wrong.
As I said, Mouser has stock. Looks like Digikey doesn't stock but has qty 1 for sale with a 11 week lead time. Avnet is also non-stocking but shows qty 1 available in 2 weeks for Tin or Gold Flash, to 6 weeks for Gold.
Prices range from about $6 to $13 for qty 1.
Of course, now that I've checked all that I've decided to be lazy and just order a finished module from one of the vendors.